Being a Child Again

One of the great joys of being a mother is being able to live another childhood along with each one of your children. This past Wednesday I was able to do that with my ten year old daughter. I was one of the chaperones for her 4th Grade Class as they went on a field trip to Monterey and Carmel. The field trip was to go visit three important historical landmarks in California’s history: Monterey Custom House, Colton Hall (in Monterey), and the Carmel Mission. This was a real treat for me, since I didn’t grow up in California. I didn't learn California history when I was in elementary school like my ten year old daughter is currently doing. So what better time to do it than now?

Our first stop of the day was at the Custom House (pictured above), right by the wharf in Monterey. At one time it was Mexico’s primary port of entry on the Alta California coast. This is one of the oldest government buildings in California. In July 1846 Commodore John Drake Sloat raised a flag here, claiming over 600,000 square miles of territory for the United States.

Next stop in Monterey was Colton Hall (pictured above and below). This building was originally built as a school house, but on
September 1, 1849, representatives met here to draft a constitution, in hopes California would be admitted into the United States.

Our last stop was my favorite; we ended our field trip at the Carmel Mission (above). This mission was dedicated in 1797. By 1836, two years after secularization, the destruction of mission life was complete. The church was basically in ruins until 1931 when Harry Downie was put in charge of restoring the mission. From that time until his death in 1980 he dedicated his life to restoring the mission. Here are some of my favorite photographs of the beautiful building and its grounds. Click on any photo to enlarge.

The next three photos are of the living quarters in the mission.

More photos of the grounds. The weather was nice that day--perfect for taking outside photos.

I hope you enjoyed the photos of these historical places. I also hope you, along with me, learned a little bit more about California history. It is fun having a chance to learn, explore,

and to be a child again!

My Mom

A Mother’s Day can’t go by without me missing my mother.

I would like to pay tribute to her today.

I am sad to say, the last five years of my mother’s life were so heartbreaking, they often overshadow memories I have of the wonderful person I knew growing up. Unfortunately when I was only twenty-one years old, my mother had a brain aneurism. She had just turned sixty-five years old. The person I had known as “Mom” disappeared that day and fragments of her, along with her frail body, stayed and fought a five-year-battle of dibilitating health problems.

Ahhh, enough of the sad, and on with the happy.

(Below, left to right: my grandmother, my uncle, my mother, and my grandfather.)

My mother was born in the heart of one of the most sparsely populated regions of the United States, Fredonia, Arizona.
(Below: my uncle, and my mother)

The tiny little town is located in the high desert plateau considered the Northern gateway to the Grand Canyon.
(My mother and her family outside their home in Fredonia, Arizona.)

She had four amazing sisters, and one brilliant brother.
They were all very close. They were taught the value of an education.
(My aunt who was an RN, my uncle who was a psychiatrist, and my mother had a teaching degree.)

My mother was one of the few women of her time to get a college degree. She graduated from Brigham Young University.

After graduating and teaching school for one year
she married my father.
(Below: My mother and father with my oldest brother.)

My parents had five children, of which I was the youngest--
--and an “oops”.

You see, my mother was 45 when she had me, and my father 50.
So, my appearance in their lives came as quite a surprise!
She was a very petite woman, and her motto was, “Diamonds and dynamite come in small packages!” She was a mixture of both :-)
(Below: on the left is my Aunt Ella, on the right is my mother.)

My mother filled her time with hard work, service towards others, and a love of God.

(Photo above and below: My mother with her sister Ella.)

She was employed for twenty-five years as the town's City Recorder. She was very active in the church and served others whenever she was given an opportunity. She loved to laugh, and had a witty sense of humor.

I have never met a person who worked harder or could fit more into a day than she could.
She believed that “Everything worth doing was worth doing well!”

I wish I could have shared more of my life with her.

I miss her terribly.

I celebrate this day in her honor.

Love you Mom!

Now playing on Radio Insane Housewife: You and Me (together we can do anything)

I love music. The list of concerts I have gone to in the past few years reflects my broad spectrum in taste: Hannah Montana, The Jonas Brothers (okay the last two were because of my daughter, but I still really enjoyed the concerts!), Andrea Bocelli, John Schmidt, Bon Jovi, Tina Turner, and Stevie Nicks & Fleetwood Mac.

I feel like music is the soundtrack to my life. The tune playing on the soundtrack (in my head) may change day to day, or even minute by minute, depending on what is happening in my life. The song may be as spiritually uplifting as Josh Groban's "You Raise Me Up", or just as fun and sparkly as Owl City's "Fireflies".

For those of you who have been following the rollercoaster of my life lately, you won’t be surprised to hear what is playing on “Radio Insane Housewife” station (aka, my internal music stream.) During the last few days, Dave Matthew’s Band "You and Me" has been playing non-stop. The song really fits how I feel about overcoming the mental hurdles my family and I have been going through lately. I love the lyrics to this song as well as the music--the more you listen to it, the more you addicted you'll become. I am sharing it in hopes it will also inspire you today. Enjoy! Note: A friend of mine said she couldn't see the "You and Me" video below--probably her computer security software is blocking the link. So, if you cannot see the video here in this post, you can see it on YouTube by clicking on the following link:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A6t78OW-yhM&feature=related

Lyrics to You And Me:
Wanna pack your bags, something small
Take what you need and we disappear
Without a trace we'll be gone, gone
The moon and the stars can follow the car
and then when we get to the ocean
We gonna take a boat to the end of the world
All the way to the end of the world

Oh, and when the kids are old enough
We're gonna teach them to fly

You and me together, we could do anything, baby
You and me together yes, yes (x2)

You and I, we're not tied to the ground
Not falling but rising like rolling around
Eyes closed above the rooftops
Eyes closed, we're gonna spin through the stars
Our arms wide as the sky
We gonna ride the blue all the way to the end of the world
To the end of the world

Oh, and when the kids are old enough
We're gonna teach them to fly

You and me together, we could do anything, baby
You and me together yes, yes (x2)

We can always look back at what we did
All these memories of you and me baby
But right now it's you and me forever girl
And you know we could do better than anything that we did
You know that you and me, we could do anything

You and me together, we could do anything, baby
You and me together yeah, yeah
Two of us together, we could do anything, baby
You and me together yeah, yeah
Two of us together yeah, yeah
Two of us together, we could do anything, baby

We alone to reach the end of the world

Album: Big Whiskey and The GrooGrux King
Genre: Alternative Rock
Lyrics: Dave Matthews
Released: August, 2009

Now you know what is playing in my head, what's playing on your “Life’s Radio Station”?

Carpe Diem! (Latin for "seize the day")

For those of you out there cyberspace, I am repeating my Monday, April 26th facebook post. I just wanted to let you know about the positive news regarding my husband’s bladder cancer.


Monday, April 26, 2010. My husband received his biopsy results from his doctor today, after having exploratory surgery last Monday. The doctor told him the biopsies were all cancer free. We were thrilled beyond belief at this news, after going through fourteen long weeks of cancer treatments and four different surgeries over the past eight months. What a great blessing this is to our family. He will have to be vigilant in getting screened for cancer every three months, but now we know that his body does respond to treatment and we feel very optimistic about the future. We now feel like we can take our lives off of "hold", and now embrace it with both arms!

Regarding my husband’s work situation: another person in his group at work volunteered for the transfer to Sterling Heights, Michigan. It is a man whose parents and family live back there. So it is a good move for this co-worker and his family. Although taking the transfer to Michigan seemed like the "logical thing for us to do", it never felt right. After prayer and much thought, we felt inspired to stay and fight for the life and friends we have here. Since making the decision, we have felt happy and at peace. Life is good, very good in our home tonight!

We want to extend our sincerest gratitude to all of the wonderful friends and family that have stood by our side and held candles to light our way through the darkness of the past eight months! We could not have made it without your prayers, encouragement, and support. We invite you to do something to celebrate this happy occasion with us--hug a loved one, eat out for dinner, do the "happy dance”, and . . . believe in miracles!